Midwesthonky, that is totally messed up!!, Not the Children!! I’m sure it will be hard on you and the other families affected by this especially the children. As a father myself I went through this very same thing with my youngest Son, he was molested by my mother-in-law second husband. Thankfully he put a gun to his head and pull the trigger they found him dead in his home. My Son 32 now he and I have had many talks about him being a Survivor of sexual abuse as a child. To this day it still affects him that’s something no one ever gets over that stays with the person the rest of their life. Many blessing to you Sir and to your family. If you need to talk about this please feel free to inbox me, I will be more than happy to listen and share with you it helps to talk about it really does. PS. I’m almost sure a lot of the other old timers in here will be more than willing to offer help in anyway they can. I have come know most of these guys as you probably know some too, bunch of great guys in my book.
Mike