I agree with the first line.
The second part isn't really the whole point/problem........ we've spent/wasted trillion$ on military hardware...
Then what do we do?
We allow politicians with no military experience to demand the same Rules Of Engagement and fairness that would be used in a sporting event.

So we have an enemy that is willing to do Absolutely Anything to kill and win. While we, $pend and play fair like it's a baseball game.
Our politicians have one toe in the war, while the rest of their body is out and just wants to get re-elected.