LOL... How funny. Good luck with your wife. I just renovated a new home I purchased and yes the appliances are a fortune. My advice, go the Home Depot and do the no interest no payment deals. It makes the bleeding feel a little more tolerable. Although the Sig 8's are tempting. I love those speakers.
Are you going white on the trim? That would be my recommendation. Keep all trim, crown and doors white. All of these need to be the same color. You may not want to go with a straight white, but Benjamin Moore makes a great color called Linen white that will look nice. Be sure to use a semi-gloss paint on your trim. They will contrast your floors nicely.
What are you going to do with the cabinets in the kitchen? Are you keeping them that color or planning on staining them?
The house looks like it is coming out nice though.. Congrats