First Date Tips ... (advice please...)

[Sheep]

Humour. Girls like the guys that can make them laugh. Flowers makes you seem desperate and needy. If you can work that angle, go for it. Don't talk about other girls. This is what you do BEFORE you get the date (BTW, works awesome!). Don't smell bad, in ANY way. Breath, body. Clean shaven works best. You'll find out later if they like beards. Eye contact. Don't stare at their boobs, and don't stare at other women. Give it to them straight on and it can really makes a difference (This is in reference to your 2 eye'd head, not your 1 eye'd trouser snake). It helps if you don't have mixing pot brown eye's too. Keep conversation light, and try not to be too forward on the first date. You can really put them off. If forward works the the first date, you're dating quantity, not quality.

SheepStar
EDIT: GET CONFIDENT, STUPID!

 

[Alex2507]

You can do a single flower, just not a whole bouquet. Get it from a florist so it's all fancied up ... not from the gas station around the corner from her house. I like to picture them walking around on their hands and knees ... naked and barking like dogs. That generally puts a smile on my face and smiles are good. In case of an awkward silence ask if she digs chicks.

That should get some kind of dialog going.

 

[Shock]

You can do a single flower, just not a whole bouquet. Get it from a florist so it's all fancied up ... not from the gas station around the corner from her house. I like to picture them walking around on their hands and knees ... naked and barking like dogs. That generally puts a smile on my face and smiles are good. In case of an awkward silence ask if she digs chicks.

That should get some kind of dialog going.

Don't you like dudes?

 

[pzaur]

A tour of the local Planned Parenthood on the first date is probably not the best place to start.

Also, chlamydia is not, I repeat, not a flower.

-pat

 

[mtrycrafts]

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Any general advice? (Other than don't show her my soundsystem)

Ask what she does, what she is interested in? If she like movies( a possible 2nd date location) and what kinds. You don't want to be too far apart on them.
Does she participate in sports, which ones, even on a casual basis. Shows common interests perhaps.
Ask about her family, siblings, etc.
Yes, listen to her and don't get carried away about yourself.
Also, if there is no 2nd date, remember, lots of fish in the ocean

 

[highfigh]

Haha, the only problem I have is if I do take her home...well... my system is kind of the elephant in the living room...

As far as audio, I usually leave that to 'what kind of music do you like?' and not much beyond that.

She does know I'm into sound though, because of being in the club...

Yeah, the flowers are borderline. I've always heard you should. Kinda mixed on that.

Cheers.

K.

K.

Why is that? Your right too. What is it with women and glove compartments?

Yeah.

Thanks man.

I would find out if she has any allergies before buying flowers. It seems that a lot more people are allergic to just about everything now, because of a variety of things. If you say "I though about getting some flowers but I didn't know if you have any allergies". If she doesn't have allergies, you look like a really thoughtful guy and if she does, you look even better.

Women and glove compartments- think about it- a guy's glove compartment is about as close to being a purse as it can get. That said, I used to do car audio and some women had things in their glove compartments that, if I had commented on them, I know they would not have been happy.

 

[jamie2112]

J/K

 

[droht]

Best Advice: Be yourself

Also the 4 Fs:

Friends
Family (not future family, brothers/sisters etc)
Favorites
Firsts

These are GREAT conversation starters

As in:

"do you have any cool friends who could join us in a 3some?"

"what is your favorite - doggie or reverse cowgirl?"

"how old were you when you first did it? was it with a family member?"


But seriously, the only strategy that I ever liked was convincing myself that the date and outcome really didn't matter. Get the pressure off yourself. You may want some action, but I doubt you have any clue that this is the girl for you, or whatever, so don't make it too big of a thing.

 

[Chu Gai]

And don't forget to tell everyone what base you got to. Oh, and pics please.

 

[Rickster71]

Don't you like dudes?

SSHHHHHHH!

 

[majorloser]

Ok, it's now the morning after. Inquiring minds want to know...















Did you tap it?

 

[billy p]

FWIW....just the fact your asking a bunch of audio nerds for advice...... Now did you ^^^^...

 

[Warpdrv]

Hump her leg - that works for me everytime...

 

[mike c]

Hump her leg - that works for me everytime...

i'd do what he says ^

any new girls?

 

[GO-NAD!]

What a skank.

Come on now! That's his wife you're talking about!!

 

[GO-NAD!]

And don't forget to tell everyone what base you got to. Oh, and pics please.

I wouldn't do that. Well, not yet anyway. I'll assume that Chu Gai is joking and that you know better...

 

[adwilk]

Hey, GO-NAD... Sarcasm much?

 

[jamie2112]

Ok, it's now the morning after. Inquiring minds want to know...















Did you tap it?

Yeah what up with that???

 

[adwilk]

Yeah what up with that???

Hopefully he's still knockin boots....

 

[GO-NAD!]

Hey, GO-NAD... Sarcasm much?

Absolutely!