For me(and I think many others), there’s just nothing that an EV solves. All the vehicles in my household are relatively new, and paid off. The investment in purchasing an EV, adding the proper electrical service, charger and added KW to my monthly bill just don’t make sense. Our house is heated by an electric boiler which heats the slab of the house. While efficient, winters here can be brutal and it’s costly enough without charging my EV that would probably need to be charged after a 15mi trip to town in -20f weather. My daily driver is a diesel pickup, and while it’s not a “work truck” I regularly haul things in it, and also tow a 7500lb camper. Sometimes if we decide to take the boat out of the lift and haul it to a different lake, my truck tows it. I’ve also not seen compelling evidence that harvesting lithium to make these batteries is anything but harmful to the earth, and surrounding areas. Not to mention, afaik, the ability for replacing them or recycling them is almost non existent. Also, we live in a semi rural area and the support for charging isn’t good here. We did have a charging station but it was removed for some odd reason.
If EV’s work for some people, that’s great. They just don’t fit my use case or lifestyle, and widespread adoption seems mythical at best.