He doesn't have a lot of ultra-low-noise options based on the HW he has to work with and what he can introduce in the chain. The miniDSP is no stellar champion in the specs department either. Some compromises will need to be made.
The SVS sub mentioned was not a recommendation for that sub per se. It was an example to show that, yes, there are subs out there with HPF (one poster in this thread implied they were super rare).
You can't always get what you want.
You are repeating something similar to what I said in post#51 so I am in agreement. Trouble is, when a thread starting to get long, people forget what other posters have said prior and the thread could start to get messy, such as repeating stuff, argument for nothing etc...
I am not a minidsp fan, and I think their lower end ones such as the 2X4HD (that I do own one) are way overrated/overused, but facts are facts, they do have the SHD model that has been suggested as a viable option for the OP (his friend) and it is the one that actually has very low if now ultra low noise.
Even Amir commented on the low noise level is not remotely an audible conc
"We see faint signs of the original problem but they are now very nicely attenuated and at -130 dB and lower, not remotely an audible concern."
It would be nice if there is something that has similar flexible bass management option to have noise level 10 dB below the AHB2, but again we both know that is probably not available on the market at the moment.
There may be another option but the OP/his friend would have to make some enquiries. The solution I am thinking is to use the sub with HPF option that has been suggested, but request an "ultra low" noise active HPF from the manufacturer. I think Rythmik will likely be willing to do it, on request, for a price of course. When I bought mine with the option, they used a good OPA (don't remember the number) that is not SOTA but I am sure if I requested that they use something better such as the NE5532 (or better), they would have done it for me. SVS may do that too, but again it would have been a special request.
Still, the minidsp SHD solution offers more flexibility, at a much higher cost than the simple HPF built in to a subwoofer. That is not likely going to be a problem for the OP's friend if he is fixated on "ultra-low" noise even if it not practically necessary. I may go that route myself, unless someone knows of a better option than the minidsp SHD. That's because I am one of those (if that's ocd.., so be it) who wants to have the best specs/measurements on paper.