Had no intention of hijacking that other guys thread.  My bad!  I should've just continued here from the beginning, but as usual, one question led to another.  Anyhoo......
Peng, and others, do you think going with a refurb 4520CI for 800.00 would be better than getting a new X4100 for 750.00?  This is really whats troubling me right now.  
EVEN IF I dont have good luck with the internet options that have been suggested for the 4520CI, it doesnt make a huge difference.  I dont HAVE TO HAVE internet to the AVR.  It was more for the old lady if/when she wanted to use airplay.  But she probably wouldnt even use it that much.  Me, I'd probably never use it as I use my ps4 for streaming spotify or playing CD's.  
I simply want to upgrade the quality of my AVR, and possibly add an ext. amp later if I cant get rid of that itch.  
Not looking to spend over a grand for an AVR.  
My deal is should I get the better 4520, though its a refurb, or get the X4100 new?  Both at about the same price.  Wifi would be nice, but its not a deal breaker as far as Im concerned.