go for the rosenut. when you have that in your living room, i'll say you shoulda gone with black.
seriously though, i was almost in the same boat. i was choosing between the finishes ... got rosenut. but since my HT is pretty crappy in the looks department, i actually regret getting rosenut.
but since your setup is out in the open, maybe you SHOULD go with rosenut. or gloss black.
i also oak in person, looks great actually - but doesn't match anything in my room. Thanks Mike it is a tuff descion and I have been racking my brain pretty hard ,I can actually hear my brain cells popping

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