That is such a tough one to answer because the only real way to know is to get out and listen. Most retail environments are set up to catch your eyes and not your ears so it's hard to get a good feel for speakers like that. I think what helped me was hearing a true audiophile system, properly set up to maximize the listening experience. It gave me a point of reference.
The more quality systems you can listen to the better. Search for any hi fi audio places or Best Buys with Magnolia stores in them in your area. The Martin Logan electrostatic speakers they sell at the latter are very nice sounding speakers when you're in the sweet spot and they usually have a pair of those set up in a good spot. Bring music you're familiar with, shmooze the salesperson a little and you can usually get them to set you up for some demo'ing.
I will say that if you listen to different receivers and hear big differences it's most likely going to be due to differences in gain structure, or volume (1 or 2 dB louder can be perceived as sounding "clearer") and/or whatever DSP is engaged in one vs another. For instance, if one has DSP turned on and the other doesn't there's definitely going to be a noticeable difference.
I was over there (best buy) yesterday, they had a Mcintosh playing with the electrostatic speakers on the floor, I didn't like the sound of it. I don't know if it was the tubed receiver, the speakers or they just didn't have it set up right.
In magnolia the design engineer demoed a couple of systems for me but I question how knowledgeable he was, it definitely didn't seem like apples to apples as far as the setup goes. he seemed like a nice guy though. He was telling me that online sales is growing very fast and people just read the reviews and buy it online.
At magnolia the marantz compared to the yamaha did seem warmer. also visted a smaller place by my house that has a denon and a yamaha. again the yamaha seemed to favor highs and mids, didnt seem neutral to me. But then again this guy didnt seem like he cared.
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