@Rick330 From what I've read on this thread and the ML 35XTi review thread, you are shopping at Best Buy, correct? I was just there a few days ago and listened to the 35XTi and the 60XTi and was impressed by both. I really don't think you can go wrong with the new ML models. I read
@shadyJ 's review and he seems to really like them. I would not read too much into the comments - a lot of the folks on here are perfectionist graph readers (not that that is a bad thing) and any deviation sets off their alarm bells.
I've heard the DefTech D11's in the past and, honestly, I enjoyed the sound of the new ML's over them. Another Best Buy option is the Klipsch RP-600M, which I have not heard but is getting some great reviews from some of the major publications (Google Klipsch RP-600M review). Plus, you'll save some $$$ for a better subwoofer!