There is a balance point. I agree with Shady on the technical side. So much comes down to use case and what is actually needed in-room.
There is a part of me though that believes in following best practices to achieve the best results in-room. It is in this where I lean toward a proper upright matching Speaker or a well designed horizontal 3-way Center. To me, with basic understanding of the design concepts, it becomes an easy matter of making the choice that is right for you.
I do wish that the designers and manufacturers would take further steps to mitigate potential issues, and frankly think that these companies should make available their own testing. I do not believe that some of these companies are incapable of getting their Speakers tested prior to finalizing and producing their line. These companies know what educated consumers are after and should take it a step further and design for this while helping educate other customers in a constructive manner as to why "this" design is the best they can put forth.
At the same time, I wish consumers would stop copping out and putting silly demands on Speaker manufacturers. "I bought this entertainment unit that can only hold a 5" h x 13" w x 8" d center." F that! "Why the hell did you buy furniture before you knew what equipment you were going to invest in for your home entertainment?
ASR does tend to go too far on one the side... this I agree, but not everybody there does. There is of course this version of that thread over there, and somebody commenting that even if the same drivers and same XO work is being utilized, the radiation pattern will change the Speaker so significantly as to no longer being an appropriate match.
Again... Best Practices.
We do what we can, when we can, to get the best performance possible. We need to stop making silly convenience choices if SQ matters most.