The sub-as-mains-stand setup (or "flanking sub" setup) has two advantages and three disadvantages.
The advantages are:
1) Headroom in the region of music where it's most needed.
A big driver powered by a big amp can get all kinds of loud. That kind of dynamic fidelity in the upper bass is rare in home systems. One typically has to move all the way to the Revel Salon2-Snell XA Reference-KEF 207/2-TAD Reference One class to get that kind of upper bass power. (And even then, only with a big amp powering them!)
2) Allison effect.
With proper placement (preferably bass driver or drivers low and vertically offset from the mains' baffle) and measurement equipment, one can eliminate floor bounce, i.e. the Allison Effect, at the listening position by playing with the crossover to blend the two units together. In conjunction with 2 or more other subs in the room, it becomes possible to nearly completely tame system response in the modal region, thus making one's listening space sound much much larger.
The disadvantages are:
1) Crappy performance (if run without additional subs).
Putting the subs under the mains does not smooth out response in the modal region. In fact, the extra headroom with exacerbate the problem, because the subs will excite modes that the mains were not stout enough to excite. Not an issue if you run subwoofers in the room
in addition to the flanking subs. But if one is only running two subs, it is always better to have them placed away from the mains. Usually the optimum placement for two subs is one in a corner and one far away from the corner sub.
2) Most subs aren't good enough to be so used.
As Irv mentioned, the subs need to have clean, extended response an octave above the intended lowpass. If you're using them to 250Hz, that means a driver good to 500Hz or so. Most dedicated sub drivers just aren't that good. A few, such as the Aurasound units and it seems Nathan's bespoke parts, are.
3) Diffraction off of the subs,
If they the mains are just placed on a subwoofer that's wider than the mains cabinet. Better to commission cabinets so that they are a continuous form, or at least use a stand on top of the sub for the mains.
I use the approach for the mains in my living room, albeit in concert with three other subs.
The audio parts are:
Main speaker:
Pioneer EX S-IW691L "in wall" speakers with a 5" concentric driver (damped magnesium cone, ceramic-graphite tweeter) with 7" midbasses flanking it on top and bottom, closed box of about 40L, wool felt strategically placed on the baffle to mitigate diffraction and simulate a larger wall.
Flanking sub:
Aurasound NS12-794-4A woofers firing on the inside rear of the 65L sub/stand, fed 1kW from a bridged channel pair of my
ElectroVoice CPS8.5 multisub amp.
Crossover is staggered, though off the top of my head I don't remember the numbers. The system uses all 8 channels of my miniDSP 8x8 processor for 3 mains and 5 subs.
Also visible in that picture is my current corner sub, an M-Design Eleganza Godfather, which uses the
Aurasound NS15-992-4A woofer.
i realize you want the subs to handle as much of the bass response as possible, but the TAD's are rated down to 50Hz. what is the advantage of crossing over so high? ***
Headroom. I wouldn't do it without measurement gear one knows how to use and a good DS external crossover, though!
Only if the music has copious amount of high quality bass.
I bet a pair of *** atop dual $2K subs (PSA, HSU, Rythmik) would sound better - if you like ribbons and such.
I don't know how high the PSAs or Hsus go, but Rythmiks are especially poorly suited to flanking sub configurations. The cockamamie servo nonsense severely cripples their bandwidth up top. And the subs cannot be used high enough to help deal with floor bounce, there's no acoustic reason to put them that close to the mains.