Every guy must have his own journey.
You read about other's people's journeys, but you've got to have you own.
Unfortunately, it takes a lot of time and money.
After you buy 14 pairs of speakers, you get the idea.
If I were a billionaire, my house would be so big and I would have one room each for RBH 8T (Gene's speakers), Focal Grand Utopia, KEF Muon, Revel Salon2, B&W 800D3, Dynaudio, etc.