This conversation intrigues me.
On a related note, my neighbor was being a douche again this morning. Well, his mentality has always been, "How dare you impose on me, but if I impose on you...that's your problem." So, I guess he's always a douche, and this was just another morning in which I witnessed his douchiness.
Every year, his tree (that borders my yard) and my tree (that borders his yard) drop bean pods. He goes out, picks up the bean pods from my tree, and throws them into my yard. So...he's already made the effort to pick them up, but then instead of just throwing them away, he throws them into my yard so now I have to pick them up. In contrast, every year I just pick up and throw away the bean pods from his tree. I struggle with if I want to still be the person I am, or if I want to start throwing his tree's pods back into his yard.