Don't worry, it's not just where you live. I had a request to put up a structure next to my farm house. This is on my own property, not visible from anywhere public and the neighbours is a fence, tall trees and a road. The structure was a total of 1,098 sq ft and was intended to house a package shed, room for the lawn mover, two deep garage bays for a boat and a caravan and a three car carport.
This was refused on the basis that the building was "much too large", and that it would "reduce available farm land". (I can't think of any farmers who'd want to work a 1,100 sq ft field with modern machinery).
I asked what would be acceptable. "Typically 500 sq ft without issue" and they would "be inclined to accept up to 1,076 sq ft for the current proposal."
So I asked if we were really arguing over 20 sq ft of building footprint on my private lot against no neighbours and visible from absolutely nowhere. The only one to ever see this building would be my family and the mail man. Yes, we definitely were discussing that.
So I asked "Well, would it change anything if it's a mixed used building?" to which the reply was that it potentially would. So I told them (which was true) that the parcel shed and one of the parking spaces was for my commercial use.
Proposal accepted. WTF?
I spent five (yes, five) years of my life on obtaining planning permissions for an addition to our old farm house. It's been here since 1880, and for the addition (sans the garage which I've basically dropped for now) we're only building inside the existing buildings. We're replacing the roof, adding skylights and so on. But again, hardly anyone will be able to even see this, no matter how hard they squint.
We went through the whole nine yards. A local hearing to allow any neighbours to object (noone cared, obviously), and it was even processed as an agenda point in a city council meeting whether this project could be considered permissible (the council immediately agreed). Yet the people working the case kept drawing things out. I got like 12 (mostly pointless) questions, answered those, then got another 12, answered those, then another 14.
They littered us with claims and demands they have no legal grounds to ask for, and I had to quote several laws and building codes to them.
It was only after answering those last 14 questions, in which I had previously asked that they now ask all their remaining questions at once so we could all get on with things, that we finally got our permits.
All that nonsense meant we got to pay much more for labor and materials because of the inflation and energy shortage, which resulted in some items increasing several hundred percent in price.
And at the same time, the council spends hundreds of thousands on advertising in order to attract new residents to the area.