Or just read the article if like me and find that better than watching a video
https://www.audioholics.com/frequent-questions/the-difference-between-biamping-vs-biwiring
Yes, if you lower the crossover you'll get "less" sub. Might try raising it, too.
Like the others said on speaker height....I suppose you can't place them on the floor out in the room some?
ps missed the double center thing altogether, thought it was just a long one

Yeah I'd maybe try one below and one above the screen, but not side by side....