Nah, no particular kit recommendation, the glue always seems to be the weak point in all of them for a few reasons. Whatever the local shop has when I need one is good enough (but that's pretty rare these days, as am tubeless on my two mainly used bikes). I've used the Park patches with the adhesive backing, but didn't really care for those.
Vulcanizing a patch isn't a bad idea as long as you don't make the hole bigger
There was this time I tried that on a water bed....