After nearly two years, and 509 posts, it still is the "New" HT Room.
It would be pretty fun to have someone take all of the photos over the last couple of years, and make one of those stop-animation videos.
Just joshin' ya.
I agree about matching the surrounds. At first, I used to think even having to match the front stage was not all that big of a deal, so yeah I've changed my position quite a bit on that.
It's not an absolute must, but if doable, I'd recommend it always.
And I can feel you a bit on having more "capable" surrounds. I've now used 3 different models for surrounds over the last two years, and the difference in extension is immediately noticeable, even having had all of them at the same x-over at 80hz. Very easy to tell. I'd have kept the largest ones if I could easily wall/ceiling mount them.