OH YES, SOME OF US DO!
Phil, I just got into this thread. But you know how I feel about these health matters. You know that a lot of us have gone through some pretty bad times ourselves...and we do care and do want to listen and help. How else can people care about you unless you let them? So let us.
You know me, Phil, and know that I don't mince words when it comes to this stuff. They only give the tough stuff to those that can handle it. Your mother is one of those. You need to take your cue from her, amigo. You need to be one of those, too. What would she want from, and for, you?! Strength, honesty, and love, I'd wager.