I think the issue unfortunately has a simple explanation. You own Onkyo receivers which is a major mistake. They are known problem units. They are under capitalized and have been for some time. It is obvious to me that they have not mastered the increased rate of, and more complex repeater handshakes, of the higher resolutions.
These days, it really does come down to Denon/Marantz, or Yamaha as your receiver options.