Michael, I made it clear I will not disprove the lies of another.
@Hi-Fi-Guy was wise enough to say, in his opinion. He will not be able to prove his original contention.
FYI, Opinion is acceptable in the absence of fact, not in conflict with it.
I have ZERO doubt that neither he nor you have the foggiest clue as to what NYC is like in any way and that all your impressions are old school fear of urban areas.
But, so what, enjoy your holiday meals!!!!!! Happy Thanksgiving!~