Well the yardstick for 10" drivers is the old KEF B 139. KEF got the T/S parameters right in the sweet spot.
There are plenty available used on eBay and
Falcon acoustics now make new exact copies in every way. This is the unit to which I compare all others.
You might want to look at this
Volt unit.
Since you are doing an active three way you might want to also look at the Volt midrange dome. This is a naughty knock off of the ATC midrange driver.
This unit of
Hi-Vi is also in contention. That is the so called Swan driver as it is the unit for the Swan speaker which has had popularity in the DIY community.
Then of course there is the
SEAS magnesium cone Excel driver. That is top budget though.