Just think about this logically for a minute.
Voltage is a measurement of POTENTIAL energy. You can never take a voltage measurement at a single point, voltage measures the difference in potential energy between 2 points.
Now, to connect in parallel, the output of the pre-amp will have a + connection and a - connection (just looking at 1 channel). For RCAs, the middle pin is + and the outer jacket is -. Now, if the + is connected to different points, then those 2 points MUST be at the same potential (you connected them with a short). Same holds true for the - connection.
So, you have now forced the + on the pre, on amp 1, and on amp 2 to be at the same potential. When you connect the - in the same manner, those are now forced to be at the same potential as each other (but possibly at a different potential than the + connection). Therefore, the potential difference (ie voltage) between the + and - is the same regardless of where you take a voltage mesurement (all your + are the same point and all your - are the same point--they are connected by a short so they have been forced to the same voltage as we just discussed)
The "techs" that you talked to are ignorant!