I understand your dilemma, Imcloud. Personalities of all kinds are magnified over the Internet. Intangibles like mood, intent, posture, etc., can be difficult to discern and difficult to respond to. Plus some people are just asses. I've been there, both intentionally and unintentionally. Time and practice have made me a better person, though, so I try to be a little more careful with my interactions. Others have no use for this, of course. It's just the way of the world. I can't control that so I say no big whup.
Whatever you decide to do, know that you're okay. I don't read everything you write, but you seem genuine to me, which is increasingly rare these days. And remember, no one is forced to read your posts.
Now, hang with me here a second if you wouldn't mind.
Like you, I have a great wife. One of the wonderful things about her is the way she sometimes finishes my thoughts for me when I'm thinking out loud. I'll get about half way through a declarative statement of one sort or another then pause as I search for what it is I'm really trying to say. This is where my baby steps in and delivers the punch line for what turns out to be sardonic and low-key perfectly formed and perfectly timed social/personal commentary. I think she's hysterical.
So, to honor her brilliance
a few years ago I created a little something you might find helpful—or not. Here's one from the series. 'Hope this translates (crosses fingers).
You said you were a firearms enthusiast, right? Well, my wife's a shootist, too:
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