My S.O. and I have been looking for a place (in the Chicago land area) and to live near anything were looking at over $200,000 for a smaller starter home. I have a friend who just bought a 1100 Square ft condo for $220,000.
Quick personal observation:
Cost of 1500 sq. ft. home in prime Orlando - $450,000+
Cost of 1500 sq. ft. home 3 blocks form the ocean in Surfside Beach - $200,000
Cost of 1500 sq. ft. home in a historic Central FL downtown city where I live - $180,000
Some places are stupid expensive to live in and I have no idea why... except of course for the presence of industry.
My Uncle gave me some good advice early on: You WILL survive wherever you go in America... so find a place you like to live and THEN go find a job and try to make things happen for yourself.
Think about it - will you DIE in America if you pick up and move to another city and start over? Nope... eventually you'll figure it out... So if you're young and "pre-family" this is some good advice - go find a place you like and start your life
there, lol.