I agree with you that it's going to a painful process and dialog is needed (many in fact), but What should be discussed is TRUTH and FACTS. Last four years in particular many many facts and truths have been twisted, subverted, and downright abused.
I truly wish that you may change your habits reading RIGHT only media and try to (not easy) get to facts. I mean hard proven facts. Media should no have ANY BIAS - Nor left or right, but news sources are commercial companies, they value income higher than fact, so they let some bias occur to pander to their subscribers' pool.
Facts are indeed under assault and we should not let it happen.
See below are proven bias-free sources and they did their homework to prove them.
PolitiFact is a fact-checking website that rates the accuracy of claims by elected officials and others on its Truth-O-Meter.
www.politifact.com
www.factcheck.org
Fact Check
www.npr.org
Verify the latest news with AP Fact Check. AP fact checkers combat misinformation by debunking false and misleading claims.
apnews.com