You could look at the Behringer FBQ2496. BUT check out the sound card you are looking at to see if it has any bass management and eq options. That and REW (Room EQ Wizard) with an SPL meter would work.
The reason that I suggested the eQ.2 is because I am taking into account your just getting into this and wanted to be cognizant of that fact. If you really want to pull out all the stops and are ok with your head spinning a bit ... I am sure you will get plenty of help from AH and others (especially Hometheatershack).
Here are a few good links:
AVSForum talking about
sub $400 eq options.
Hometheatershacks
awesome REW thread. And their Berhinger
BFD Guide.