Hey Guys, thanks for all the kind thoughts / words.
Dad is home, picked him up yesterday. He had a kidney removed due to cancer.
It was never about the small amount of money. My wife and mom also gave (yet undisclosed, to me)
amounts of money.
My mom is in her 70's, and I remember the look on her face when the nurse confirmed my suspicions.
Thanks!...with the help of all here, I've resigned ourselves to thinking we did the right thing; knowing what did at that time.
This site has always been been so much more than Audio / Video and HT.