I NEVER started facebook, I just don't believe in it. there is a reason you stop talking to people form high school.... A really good friend of mine started facebook when it first came out as did his wife, then all of the sudden his wife was facebooking with one of her Ex's, so he looked up a few of his Ex's, long story short married for 8 years with 2 kids, flushed {well not the kids, but the marriage}... We are all still friends, his wife and my wife talk and I talk with him, I actually just installed a centrl ac system in his new house, that he lives in alone while his kids come over on the weekends... They are both alone at the present moment, and we kind of joke about like "fKING facebook", but its serious stuff, some people say " if it was meant to be, its meant to be" but they were happy, the kids were happy, they both say it, they have no idea what happened, no complaints over the good 8 years, just turned into a huge mess.. and if you look around there are a lot of stories like that... I am very secure and I trust my wife, so if she was taking to an ex boyfriend, I wouldnt be looking for an exgirlfriend to make her jealous, but thats how it starts... I would be looking into a PI and getting read up on my prenup...
Not that my friend is lucky, but now he goes to friends of ours night clubs, picks up some under 25 year olds and takes them home and the leave in the morning, I don't know why but you live in a nice house, take care of yourself, and drive a $90K convertible and young girls jump in your bed, he has showed me pictures!!! now for me a 25 year old isn't super attractive, since I have never met a women better than my wife, and I was 25 less than 10 years ago, but he is almost 40, I told him I would show his ex some of his pictures, and he said "No I would never want to hurt her like that"!!! and they are divorced... I would be back to the good old days with the video camera on the tripod at the end of the bed, I'll never forget my fathers and uncles face the first time they came in and seen that set up, My uncle came down stairs and said "your never going to catch your girlfriend cheating with that camera, its rite in the middle of the room", and my father said "at least they took down the stripper pole" {I used to have a stripper pole in my bedroom, my wife used to use it to work out, but then for some reason after my sons she wanted it out of the house, I guess we turned into respectable people when we had to take care of kids... Dam kids...