The arcing in the video was caused by wind and the voltage between transformers isn't really extremely high- the towers near my house show the line voltage is around 22,600VAC and the cables are separated by at least 6'- someone I knew as a kid climbed one of those towers and was zapped. He lived, but he was badly burned & it really messed him up emotionally. At that voltage, contact isn't actually necessary- if he provided a good enough path to the tower, it was enough.
The distance bridged by lighting can be several miles- the voltage is immense and orders of magnitude higher; even a nearby strike can induce huge surges in the buildings' wiring.
If lights or other devices begin to act strangely, I would recommend checking their outlets and switches- if they were wired by 'back stabbing', the result is usually loss of spring tension in the clips and burning of the wire at the tiny contact area.
Current is conducted well when the contact area or wire gauge is fairly large but in small areas, burning of the metal is common. Back stabbing saves time, but it's a really bad practice and manufacturers of these parts should stop making it possible.
Read about the potential dangers where your electrical outlets can backstab you and cause physical as well as financial harm. Know the solution to it.
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