Your reply is what I expected. I posted what I did so other people who are really interested in what industry professionals know will have ready access to it, and, the stuff you just wrote for perspective.
Now be sure to tell that guy, Lon Neumann, who mixed sound for Michael Jackson, and many other world class artists, that he is full of 'mostly bunk and nonsense'. Add your comments to the YouTube video. It will be a hoot!
You have a nice looking room. I have a similar arrangement with the soffit.
Here is a front pic of my setup:
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Surrounds and backs are the same - same drivers, same crossovers, tweeter pairs are matched, and yes the phase match matters. Lon Neumann and I are in agreement about phase matching. I listen to the results every day! I hope that someday you get to listen to a setup with phase matching. May it open your mind and ears.