AcuDefTechGuy Audioholic Jedi May 29, 2018 #501 DIY Junky said: Or throw out the Kids and take the largest room as you music room ..I am Lucky to have a wife that said take any room you want for your music room .. I threw kids out pretty quick after that Click to expand... What do you mean "THREW the kids out" ?
DIY Junky said: Or throw out the Kids and take the largest room as you music room ..I am Lucky to have a wife that said take any room you want for your music room .. I threw kids out pretty quick after that Click to expand... What do you mean "THREW the kids out" ?
DIY Junky Full Audioholic May 29, 2018 #502 AcuDefTechGuy said: What do you mean "THREW the kids out" ? Click to expand... Lucky one got married at 22 and other one got thrown out at 21 for disrespecting his mother.. Yes I am that type of father …
AcuDefTechGuy said: What do you mean "THREW the kids out" ? Click to expand... Lucky one got married at 22 and other one got thrown out at 21 for disrespecting his mother.. Yes I am that type of father …
AcuDefTechGuy Audioholic Jedi May 29, 2018 #503 DIY Junky said: Lucky one got married at 22 and other one got thrown out at 21 for disrespecting his mother.. Yes I am that type of father … Click to expand... I believe any 21 YR person who got thrown out of his parents' house probably deserves it.
DIY Junky said: Lucky one got married at 22 and other one got thrown out at 21 for disrespecting his mother.. Yes I am that type of father … Click to expand... I believe any 21 YR person who got thrown out of his parents' house probably deserves it.
panteragstk Audioholic Warlord May 29, 2018 #504 AcuDefTechGuy said: Well, on the very slightly bright side, it’s more up to date than my $7500 Denon AVP-A1HDCI that has HDMI v1.3. Click to expand... I guess if you're into 3D... I'd take your Denon over the "cheaper" one any day though...
AcuDefTechGuy said: Well, on the very slightly bright side, it’s more up to date than my $7500 Denon AVP-A1HDCI that has HDMI v1.3. Click to expand... I guess if you're into 3D... I'd take your Denon over the "cheaper" one any day though...
panteragstk Audioholic Warlord May 29, 2018 #505 DIY Junky said: Lucky one got married at 22 and other one got thrown out at 21 for disrespecting his mother.. Yes I am that type of father … Click to expand... I told my wife that when my kids turn 18 (and are out of high school) they either need to be working and out of my house, or in college and out of my house. Not to be mean, but at that point I'll have taught them what is expected of them. Time to be real adults like I did (sort of) at that age. I'm not going to sue my 30 year old son so he gets out of my house...(in case you aren't aware)
DIY Junky said: Lucky one got married at 22 and other one got thrown out at 21 for disrespecting his mother.. Yes I am that type of father … Click to expand... I told my wife that when my kids turn 18 (and are out of high school) they either need to be working and out of my house, or in college and out of my house. Not to be mean, but at that point I'll have taught them what is expected of them. Time to be real adults like I did (sort of) at that age. I'm not going to sue my 30 year old son so he gets out of my house...(in case you aren't aware)
DIY Junky Full Audioholic May 29, 2018 #506 panteragstk said: I told my wife that when my kids turn 18 (and are out of high school) they either need to be working and out of my house, or in college and out of my house. Not to be mean, but at that point I'll have taught them what is expected of them. Time to be real adults like I did (sort of) at that age. I'm not going to sue my 30 year old son so he gets out of my house...(in case you aren't aware) Click to expand... Pretty much the words out of my mouth... I gave you all you need to survive and I will not put up with disrespecting the one who put you on this planet … pack your @#$%^* or I will do it... .
panteragstk said: I told my wife that when my kids turn 18 (and are out of high school) they either need to be working and out of my house, or in college and out of my house. Not to be mean, but at that point I'll have taught them what is expected of them. Time to be real adults like I did (sort of) at that age. I'm not going to sue my 30 year old son so he gets out of my house...(in case you aren't aware) Click to expand... Pretty much the words out of my mouth... I gave you all you need to survive and I will not put up with disrespecting the one who put you on this planet … pack your @#$%^* or I will do it... .
Matt34 Moderator May 29, 2018 #507 So when is the Audioholic's Twister (no-pants optional) house warming party?
AcuDefTechGuy Audioholic Jedi May 29, 2018 #508 panteragstk said: I'm not going to sue my 30 year old son so he gets out of my house...(in case you aren't aware) Click to expand... Yeah, that seems a bit drastic. Of course, I don't know the whole story there. Must be really bad for the parents. I told my 2 daughters (15 and 16 YR) that they could stay with us forever, assuming they're not like those crazy entitled kids.
panteragstk said: I'm not going to sue my 30 year old son so he gets out of my house...(in case you aren't aware) Click to expand... Yeah, that seems a bit drastic. Of course, I don't know the whole story there. Must be really bad for the parents. I told my 2 daughters (15 and 16 YR) that they could stay with us forever, assuming they're not like those crazy entitled kids.
KEW Audioholic Overlord May 29, 2018 #509 DIY Junky said: Lucky one got married at 22 and other one got thrown out at 21 for disrespecting his mother.. Yes I am that type of father … Click to expand... I think the important consideration is - your wife is that type of mother. I have a friend who would like to push his adult kid out of the house, but he knows if he did, his wife would hate him for it!
DIY Junky said: Lucky one got married at 22 and other one got thrown out at 21 for disrespecting his mother.. Yes I am that type of father … Click to expand... I think the important consideration is - your wife is that type of mother. I have a friend who would like to push his adult kid out of the house, but he knows if he did, his wife would hate him for it!
KEW Audioholic Overlord May 29, 2018 #510 panteragstk said: I told my wife that when my kids turn 18 (and are out of high school) they either need to be working and out of my house, or in college and out of my house. Not to be mean, but at that point I'll have taught them what is expected of them. Time to be real adults like I did (sort of) at that age. Click to expand... That is a good strategy to set the expectation beforehand! I assume you told the kids as well!
panteragstk said: I told my wife that when my kids turn 18 (and are out of high school) they either need to be working and out of my house, or in college and out of my house. Not to be mean, but at that point I'll have taught them what is expected of them. Time to be real adults like I did (sort of) at that age. Click to expand... That is a good strategy to set the expectation beforehand! I assume you told the kids as well!
AcuDefTechGuy Audioholic Jedi May 29, 2018 #511 KEW said: I think the important consideration is - your wife is that type of mother. I have a friend who would like to push his adult kid out of the house, but he knows if he did, his wife would hate him for it! Click to expand... Yeah, like most guys, I know the boss of my family is my wife.
KEW said: I think the important consideration is - your wife is that type of mother. I have a friend who would like to push his adult kid out of the house, but he knows if he did, his wife would hate him for it! Click to expand... Yeah, like most guys, I know the boss of my family is my wife.
panteragstk Audioholic Warlord May 29, 2018 #512 KEW said: That is a good strategy to set the expectation beforehand! I assume you told the kids as well! Click to expand... Well, they are 1, 3, and 4 so I've got plenty of time before that conversation, but they'll be fully aware of what I expect well before the day comes. It just needs to be known that they should at least have somewhat of an idea of what they're going to do with their life. Or things they'd like to try to help them figure that out. It's not like I don't plan to help them, but me footing the entire bill because they don't feel like working won't happen. I always wondered why my Dad wanted me to get a job in high school even though it really wasn't worth it money wise, I don't anymore.
KEW said: That is a good strategy to set the expectation beforehand! I assume you told the kids as well! Click to expand... Well, they are 1, 3, and 4 so I've got plenty of time before that conversation, but they'll be fully aware of what I expect well before the day comes. It just needs to be known that they should at least have somewhat of an idea of what they're going to do with their life. Or things they'd like to try to help them figure that out. It's not like I don't plan to help them, but me footing the entire bill because they don't feel like working won't happen. I always wondered why my Dad wanted me to get a job in high school even though it really wasn't worth it money wise, I don't anymore.
AcuDefTechGuy Audioholic Jedi May 29, 2018 #513 panteragstk said: Well, they are 1, 3, and 4 Click to expand... LOL. I can see your speech now given to your 1YR, 3YR, and 4YR ! You: Alright, kids, I fully expect you to be fully independent and act like an adult and not disrespect your mother or me! 1YR: DADDA 3YR: Huh? 4YR: Say Wha?
panteragstk said: Well, they are 1, 3, and 4 Click to expand... LOL. I can see your speech now given to your 1YR, 3YR, and 4YR ! You: Alright, kids, I fully expect you to be fully independent and act like an adult and not disrespect your mother or me! 1YR: DADDA 3YR: Huh? 4YR: Say Wha?
DIY Junky Full Audioholic May 29, 2018 #514 KEW said: I think the important consideration is - your wife is that type of mother. I have a friend who would like to push his adult kid out of the house, but he knows if he did, his wife would hate him for it! Click to expand... Thank's for the support guy's. And yes I am very lucky in the wife department. That's why I did not put up with the disrespect ..She was in tears and knew I was right .. His girlfriend turned him into a puppet and now she left him . he chose the wrong one to defend . I warned him several times . not like I just threw him out on his first time pissing me off.. Amazing the damage one women can do in one year.... Parting words from me to my son was " By the time you realize that I am right it will be too late " I had 20 great years with him Last edited: May 30, 2018
KEW said: I think the important consideration is - your wife is that type of mother. I have a friend who would like to push his adult kid out of the house, but he knows if he did, his wife would hate him for it! Click to expand... Thank's for the support guy's. And yes I am very lucky in the wife department. That's why I did not put up with the disrespect ..She was in tears and knew I was right .. His girlfriend turned him into a puppet and now she left him . he chose the wrong one to defend . I warned him several times . not like I just threw him out on his first time pissing me off.. Amazing the damage one women can do in one year.... Parting words from me to my son was " By the time you realize that I am right it will be too late " I had 20 great years with him
DIY Junky Full Audioholic May 29, 2018 #515 AcuDefTechGuy said: Yeah, that seems a bit drastic. Of course, I don't know the whole story there. Must be really bad for the parents. I told my 2 daughters (15 and 16 YR) that they could stay with us forever, assuming they're not like those crazy entitled kids. Click to expand... Ohh by the way your system kicks ass .. very nice set up.. I would toe the fronts in 30 degrees from sweet spot . I did sweet spot at 2/3rds from front wall and dead center from left to right wall and tweets at ear level and fronts at 30degrees from sweet spot. sides at 120 degrees works for me … I am music only now If using a couch in sweet spot just mark with painters tape on floor. It leaves no glue I use it all the time
AcuDefTechGuy said: Yeah, that seems a bit drastic. Of course, I don't know the whole story there. Must be really bad for the parents. I told my 2 daughters (15 and 16 YR) that they could stay with us forever, assuming they're not like those crazy entitled kids. Click to expand... Ohh by the way your system kicks ass .. very nice set up.. I would toe the fronts in 30 degrees from sweet spot . I did sweet spot at 2/3rds from front wall and dead center from left to right wall and tweets at ear level and fronts at 30degrees from sweet spot. sides at 120 degrees works for me … I am music only now If using a couch in sweet spot just mark with painters tape on floor. It leaves no glue I use it all the time
AcuDefTechGuy Audioholic Jedi May 29, 2018 #516 DIY Junky said: Ohh by the way your system kicks ass .. very nice set up.. I would toe the fronts in 30 degrees from sweet spot . I did sweet spot at 2/3rds from front wall and dead center from left to right wall and tweets at ear level and fronts at 30degrees for sweet spot. sides at 120 degrees works for me … I am music only now Click to expand... Oh, yes, I actually did end up toeing the front L/R speakers in about 30 degrees. It definitely helped with the imaging big time.
DIY Junky said: Ohh by the way your system kicks ass .. very nice set up.. I would toe the fronts in 30 degrees from sweet spot . I did sweet spot at 2/3rds from front wall and dead center from left to right wall and tweets at ear level and fronts at 30degrees for sweet spot. sides at 120 degrees works for me … I am music only now Click to expand... Oh, yes, I actually did end up toeing the front L/R speakers in about 30 degrees. It definitely helped with the imaging big time.
slipperybidness Audioholic Warlord May 29, 2018 #517 panteragstk said: I told my wife that when my kids turn 18 (and are out of high school) they either need to be working and out of my house, or in college and out of my house. Not to be mean, but at that point I'll have taught them what is expected of them. Time to be real adults like I did (sort of) at that age. I'm not going to sue my 30 year old son so he gets out of my house...(in case you aren't aware) Click to expand... You know, when we were young you wanted a job at 16 (or earlier), so you could start saving up $ for your first car! Kids nowadays, may not even get a drivers license until they are 19 or 20 So, that incentive for a job is gone too.
panteragstk said: I told my wife that when my kids turn 18 (and are out of high school) they either need to be working and out of my house, or in college and out of my house. Not to be mean, but at that point I'll have taught them what is expected of them. Time to be real adults like I did (sort of) at that age. I'm not going to sue my 30 year old son so he gets out of my house...(in case you aren't aware) Click to expand... You know, when we were young you wanted a job at 16 (or earlier), so you could start saving up $ for your first car! Kids nowadays, may not even get a drivers license until they are 19 or 20 So, that incentive for a job is gone too.
panteragstk Audioholic Warlord May 29, 2018 #518 slipperybidness said: You know, when we were young you wanted a job at 16 (or earlier), so you could start saving up $ for your first car! Kids nowadays, may not even get a drivers license until they are 19 or 20 So, that incentive for a job is gone too. Click to expand... That was the logic. I look at it as my kids will have their own money to spend instead of asking me...not that it would stop them. They want something, they figure out a way to pay for it if I won't buy it for them. Plus, their first car will be what I call a "bumper car" that will be safe and cheap. Buying a 16 yo a nice new car just doesn't make sense to me unless it's cheap. I knew WAY too many people in high school that wrecked their cars the first year or two. Ain't happening.
slipperybidness said: You know, when we were young you wanted a job at 16 (or earlier), so you could start saving up $ for your first car! Kids nowadays, may not even get a drivers license until they are 19 or 20 So, that incentive for a job is gone too. Click to expand... That was the logic. I look at it as my kids will have their own money to spend instead of asking me...not that it would stop them. They want something, they figure out a way to pay for it if I won't buy it for them. Plus, their first car will be what I call a "bumper car" that will be safe and cheap. Buying a 16 yo a nice new car just doesn't make sense to me unless it's cheap. I knew WAY too many people in high school that wrecked their cars the first year or two. Ain't happening.
M MrBoat Audioholic Ninja May 30, 2018 #519 slipperybidness said: You know, when we were young you wanted a job at 16 (or earlier),so you could start saving up $ for your first car! Kids nowadays, may not even get a drivers license until they are 19 or 20 So, that incentive for a job is gone too. Click to expand... We couldn't wait to move out. I started moving out when I was 15. No dysfunction, or anything like that. Mom was just sort of poor and I wanted my own cool things so I went to work at age 15 for a concrete pouring crew digging footers, laying wire and rebar and form carpenter duties. Bought my first car and that was pretty much that. Ended up staying at older friends houses more and more until I didn't come home anymore. Bought my first real sound system when I was about 19-20. The one I have now really is the last one I will need to own. Kind of hard in a way, when you are into DIY and work yourself out of projects too soon. Caught myself at diysoundgroup last night eyeing the Fusion-15 Sentinels. . . .hard. But then I would have to build even larger subs, and a larger room to put them in. So now I look at smaller audio projects like amps. I've been thru recorded music enough to know when it has gotten as good as it audibly can. I don't aim to nitpick my way through to some goal of audio nirvana as my ears slowly fade to cancel such gains as fast as I make them. Last edited: May 30, 2018
slipperybidness said: You know, when we were young you wanted a job at 16 (or earlier),so you could start saving up $ for your first car! Kids nowadays, may not even get a drivers license until they are 19 or 20 So, that incentive for a job is gone too. Click to expand... We couldn't wait to move out. I started moving out when I was 15. No dysfunction, or anything like that. Mom was just sort of poor and I wanted my own cool things so I went to work at age 15 for a concrete pouring crew digging footers, laying wire and rebar and form carpenter duties. Bought my first car and that was pretty much that. Ended up staying at older friends houses more and more until I didn't come home anymore. Bought my first real sound system when I was about 19-20. The one I have now really is the last one I will need to own. Kind of hard in a way, when you are into DIY and work yourself out of projects too soon. Caught myself at diysoundgroup last night eyeing the Fusion-15 Sentinels. . . .hard. But then I would have to build even larger subs, and a larger room to put them in. So now I look at smaller audio projects like amps. I've been thru recorded music enough to know when it has gotten as good as it audibly can. I don't aim to nitpick my way through to some goal of audio nirvana as my ears slowly fade to cancel such gains as fast as I make them.
DIY Junky Full Audioholic May 30, 2018 #520 MrBoat said: We couldn't wait to move out. I started moving out when I was 15. No dysfunction, or anything like that. Mom was just sort of poor and I wanted my own cool things so I went to work at age 15 for a concrete pouring crew digging footers, laying wire and rebar and form carpenter duties. Bought my first car and that was pretty much that. Ended up staying at older friends houses more and more until I didn't come home anymore. Bought my first real sound system when I was about 19-20. The one I have now really is the last one I will need to own. Kind of hard in a way, when you are into DIY and work yourself out of projects too soon. Caught myself at diysoundgroup last night eyeing the Fusion-15 Sentinels. . . .hard. But then I would have to build even larger subs, and a larger room to put them in. So now I look at smaller audio projects like amps. I've been thru recorded music enough to know when it has gotten as good as it audibly can. I don't aim to nitpick my way through to some goal of audio nirvana as my ears slowly fade to cancel such gains as fast as I make them. Click to expand... Worked my ass off picking cardboard for recycling plant when 13 to buy my first system Pics bellow I still have the Ohms made a sound bar for TV down stairs out of the drivers and tweets... LMAO I rode dirt bike to work after school for 5 years.. Keep the DIY going Attachments 25434-marantz_2230_classic_receiver_with_wood_case_perfect.jpg 44 KB · Views: 771 1011254-vintage-technics-slb200-semi-automatic-turntable.jpg 90.6 KB · Views: 750 post-101828-0-57523800-1341334577.jpg 270.6 KB · Views: 684
MrBoat said: We couldn't wait to move out. I started moving out when I was 15. No dysfunction, or anything like that. Mom was just sort of poor and I wanted my own cool things so I went to work at age 15 for a concrete pouring crew digging footers, laying wire and rebar and form carpenter duties. Bought my first car and that was pretty much that. Ended up staying at older friends houses more and more until I didn't come home anymore. Bought my first real sound system when I was about 19-20. The one I have now really is the last one I will need to own. Kind of hard in a way, when you are into DIY and work yourself out of projects too soon. Caught myself at diysoundgroup last night eyeing the Fusion-15 Sentinels. . . .hard. But then I would have to build even larger subs, and a larger room to put them in. So now I look at smaller audio projects like amps. I've been thru recorded music enough to know when it has gotten as good as it audibly can. I don't aim to nitpick my way through to some goal of audio nirvana as my ears slowly fade to cancel such gains as fast as I make them. Click to expand... Worked my ass off picking cardboard for recycling plant when 13 to buy my first system Pics bellow I still have the Ohms made a sound bar for TV down stairs out of the drivers and tweets... LMAO I rode dirt bike to work after school for 5 years.. Keep the DIY going
