masak_aer said:
I have been using paypal for some time with no incidents so far (about 3-4 years). COD isn't as safe as the other method of payments, in fact, it is extremely unsafe. You base your transaction solely on faith. Money order is even worse not to mention western union. I once bought something for $500 with money order. I sent it to him only to see it gone. Whenever possible use your credit card to pay with Bidpay (they are closing as i typed). You can use paypal but select credit card as your primary payment method. Anything comes up, cancel through your credit card company.
im glad you have found a payment method that your comfortable with but i assure you that for somebody accepting paypal for payment it's not safe,go to paypal sucks.com & read up on all the "charge back's" ,my story is the same.
i too had nothing but god luck with paypal until it turned bad & when it did i quickly found out that paypal only look's out for paypal.
i accepted payment via paypal for an expensive amplifier,sent the amp in factory packing via ups next day air as the buyer wished,i recieved an email from the buyer saying he loved the amplifier,several week's later my paypal account was charged back over 2k for the amplifier purchase with the reason listed as faulty equipment,i have never recieved the amplifier back & emailing paypal to fight it was a waste of time.
so the buyer ended up with all his cash back plus a brand new amplifier worth over two thousand dollar's & all i was left with was the court system,lawyer's & law suit's,i personally did not have the time to fight all of it out over an interstate law suit but i assure you that paypal was no help to me.
for me cod has been great,the buyer must pay me the shipping charge's up front & if he dont follow through with the sale at time of delievery then i get my gear back & all im out is time,the same goes when i buy gear,when the fedex guy show's up i open the box to inspect the content's & if it's acceptable then i pay him if it's not then i refuse the package.