This is a very interesting discussion. I actually read it all the way through. I don't usually do that with long threads.
When I am driving I have things on my mind other than the soundstage, like, umm... driving? I love listening to music in my car but I don't spend thousands of dollars and hundreds of hours to make it perfect. I have a decent head unit and some decent speakers and it really doesn't sound half bad. Does it sound as good as my home system? No, I don't expect it to.
Some day I will upgrade to a better head unit, seperate amps, and a subwoofer but for now my system sounds great.
I actually have two cars with decent sound systems. My 95 Civic has a Clarion head unit and Altec Lansing speakers. The speakers are only 4" but people that ride in that car swear there is a subwoofer. They really sound good. My 1990 Civic has a Panasonic head unit and some Lightning Audio speakers I picked up at Wal-Mart for $30. I'll bet many of you would be surprised at how good this setup actually sounds. It's not spectacular but it rivals and/or beats many car systesm I have heard that cost hundreds or thousands more. How can that be? Those systems focused mainly on super loud, muddy, and boomy bass. My systems have have good response in the low, mid and high ranges like any good sound system must.
There is no brilliant sound stage in my cars like in a home system but frankly I don't notice those kinds of things when I am driving. I don't notice all of the little details. Road noise covers many of those things up.
One real acoustical nightmare is my 1977 F-250 SuperCab. The doors are hollow sheet metal and the bass sounds terribly boomy. Some day I may try to remedy that. That truck could have a decent sound system if I could lessen the resonance in the doors. There is actually less road noise in the truck than my other vehicles.