I have been thinking about your question. The answer is to use a Schmitt trigger switched by your pre amp or receiver trigger, that would control either a 12 or 24 volt relay depending on power requirements. You would need to make a 12 or 24 volt power supply, as well as the Schmitt trigger circuit. May be there is a unit out there that does this, but I can't find one. So at this time it would be a DIY project, and a good one at that.
This question you posed has made me think. Now that high powered amps like the Behringer are available at lower price points. Someone could conceivably have four of these amps, plus a plasma display, powered sub and peripherals. That is going to go over the top of most home's standard house wiring. I have visions of a lot of dangerous hook ups here. I think if this is going to be the trend, then we need to work out elegant safe solutions.
My system was part of a major renovation of our lake home. I worked very closely with the electrical inspector to keep things safe. Fortunately he was very knowledgeable and helpful. We put in a separate sub panel for the system only.
I think people get stars in their eyes when they look at products like the Behringer 500, and don't stop to plan the whole situation through and count the cost.
I see some horror stories on the horizon over this. Thanks for you question it got me thinking.