longhornguy, the classifieds are your friends. Everytime you are in the store, I might suggest asking which of their floor models they would not mind letting go of for discount. Tell them you'll be patient, and even wait up to a few months. Oh, I don't know . . .
Have you heard the 804s? You can get that for 3k used or demo. I think that's what I would aim for in BWs tower lineup at said budget. If Dynaudio, I'd aim for Contours under the same circumstances. The asking price for the 3.4 is about a few hundred dollars less than the 804s are, on the classifieds.
I spent more than that on my pair, but honestly, you could give me either pair above, and color me pretty happy.