Dear Joe,
I'm not touching your dating plans with a barge pole! However I said I would put some classical picks together.
Now I have a fairly good idea of your system. This does have a bearing, as classical music is very vulnerable. I have tried to avoid huge block busters, especially huge choral block busters as they tax even the best of systems severely. If one knows the work, you can listen through equipment limitations.
I'm trying to pick well produced discs that one returns to again and again.
I have the impression you like song, and so I'm starting there. I think the art of the English song writing reached its zenith in Tudor England.
These songs are superbly sung by Emma Kirkby. Her diction is crystal clear. She is on pitch throughout, without vibrato. The recording is in Forde Abbey Dorset. The superb Hyperion recoding captures the acoustic beautifully.
http://www.arkivmusic.com/classical/album.jsp?album_id=30771
For further exploration any in this series from Dowland's first booke of songs are a delight. This is the first of the series.
http://www.arkivmusic.com/classical/Drilldown?name_id1=3178&name_role1=1&comp_id=200335&bcorder=15&name_id=13567&name_role=2
Now I think any one who values song should have a copy of the Four Last Songs of Richard Strauss. This is one of the most profound utterances in all music. Written by an aged sick composer in Germany right after the second WW. This is for mezzo soprano and orchestra. None wrote for the mezzo voice like Richard Strauss. He married one!
These are my picks.
http://www.arkivmusic.com/classical/album.jsp?album_id=173959
http://www.arkivmusic.com/classical/album.jsp?album_id=1569
Now onto the best selling classical album of all time. This has never been unavailable since its release and with good reason. It is the great performance of Sir Edward Elgar's cello concerto by Jacqueline Dupre, under Sir John Barbirolli, "Glorious John," as Ralph Vaughn Williams called him. This is beautifully recorded in in the Kingsway Hall before modern acoustic engineers ruined it. It has Elgar's Sea Pictures and a performance of the concert overture Cockaigne, In London Town.
Elgar wrote himself out with this cello concerto. It is a deep work, brooding on the disaster that was the WW I, and the death of tonality. It ends with a great enough of that, sod it it all, lets get on with it. The collaboration between the 20 yr old Jackie and the ailing conductor, is something that created a musical event of the century.
http://www.arkivmusic.com/classical/album.jsp?album_id=1569
I guess no collection is complete without a Beethoven Symphony cycle. My current favorite is the MSO cycle under Ostmo Vanska. I would start with the fifth.
http://www.arkivmusic.com/classical/Drilldown?name_id1=858&name_role1=1&comp_id=3822&bcorder=15&name_id=56145&name_role=3
Having some of the Mozart piano concertos in your collection is very rewarding. This is one of my all time favorites.
http://www.arkivmusic.com/classical/album.jsp?album_id=6398
For a cycle this set is hard to beat.
http://www.arkivmusic.com/classical/album.jsp?album_id=128587
Now for something that is really fun!
Rimsky-Korsakov's Scheherazarde under Sir Thomas Beecham. Tommy Beecham just has no equal in this type of music.
http://www.arkivmusic.com/classical/album.jsp?album_id=2901
Now let's switch gears a little, and go to the Baroque.
Bach's Brandenberg concertos have already been recommended. Here is a new recommended version.
http://www.arkivmusic.com/classical/album.jsp?album_id=185092
I do think Bach's cantatas are well worth exploration. The music is so sublime. These are a good place to start as the melodies are likely to be familiar to you.
http://www.arkivmusic.com/classical/Drilldown?name_id1=527&name_role1=1&comp_id=28445&genre=90&bcorder=195&name_id=26870&name_role=3
http://www.arkivmusic.com/classical/Drilldown?name_id1=527&name_role1=1&comp_id=3674&genre=90&bcorder=195&name_id=26870&name_role=3
Now on to Georg Frederick Handel. Beethoven said of him, "Only before the tomb of Handel does one raise the hat and bend the knee. He achieved such striking effects and with so little means." A composer born in Germany, who started his composing career in Italy, and moved to England in the reign of Queen Anne, in preparation for the arrival of the Elector of of Hanover, the Prince of Saxborg Gotha. In other words George the first. To he English he is as English as the "Walls of Oak", that protected the "Fair Isles" for centuries. He is buried in Westminster Abbey. His music has been a staple of big royal occasions since the reign of Queen Anne.
You really can't go wrong with anything by Handel. He never fails to give pleasure. I think I would start with the Water Music and Music for the Royal Fireworks.
http://www.arkivmusic.com/classical/album.jsp?album_id=2547
http://www.arkivmusic.com/classical/Drilldown?name_id1=5023&name_role1=1&comp_id=1280&bcorder=15&name_id=13646&name_role=3
The organ concertos are also great fun.
http://www.arkivmusic.com/classical/Drilldown?name_id1=5023&name_role1=1&comp_id=6303&genre=1&bcorder=195&name_id=9707&name_role=2
Now to Brahms. If you want to be put on the edge of your chair try this.
http://www.arkivmusic.com/classical/album.jsp?album_id=146847
For Piano concerto no 2. I just love this one. The soloist died a few days later of congestive heart failure.
http://www.arkivmusic.com/classical/album.jsp?album_id=144722
Returning to song, this album is a delight. You can't fail to enjoy the Liebeslieder Waltzes.
http://www.arkivmusic.com/classical/album.jsp?album_id=2553
For an introduction to the Piano Sonata, these Schubert Sonatas have to be on the highly recommended list.
http://www.arkivmusic.com/classical/album.jsp?album_id=4579
If you like the art of song, this is on the recommended list.
http://www.arkivmusic.com/classical/album.jsp?album_id=3624
This disc is worth the money fro the Schumann Marchinbilder.
http://www.arkivmusic.com/classical/album.jsp?album_id=52976
And finally a romantic choral work. This will not overtax your system. I have selected the Faure Requiem. Gabriel Faure was a church organist. Towards the end of his life he left us this masterpiece. He left out on purpose the Dies Ire with the references to the fires of hell. He wrote to bring comfort to bereaved families. There was ecclesiastical opposition. These are my picks.
http://www.arkivmusic.com/classical/Drilldown?name_id1=3657&name_role1=1&comp_id=1020&bcorder=15&name_id=95511&name_role=3
http://www.arkivmusic.com/classical/album.jsp?album_id=32440
I think that is enough to give you some variety and choices. We have not scratched the surface. Try a few two or three of these discs and see how you get on.
If you want a recommendation for an opera or two for you Home theater set up let me know.