I won't do facebook, I think it is going to lead to the ruination of the world, rite behind walmart... I seen a few marriages get eaten up, I know its not facebooks fault, but sometimes people are as faithful as their options, facebook opens some doors and there goes a 15 year marriage... Again not that it is facebooks fault... My wife is on facebook and an old boy - friend {they never dated but were friends in college}, "looked her up", so she was talking to him catching up in little message boxes {not sure what they are called} and there are pics of us and our family on her pages, and he was married so she seen no issues talking to him, and nor did I... Well about 3 days goes by and she says "I think I have a problem", so I was like whats wrong, she said "read these messages from start to finish"...
I started reading, there was about 50 of them, it started out with him saying "hey how have you been", and she said something like "wow, great, loving life, family is awesome, all is well" bla bla bla.... its how my wife takls, always cheery and welcoming... So there was maybe 5 text boxes in that convo, ended with her cutting off the interaction with something like "good to talk to you, don't be a stranger"...
The next day, another message from him.. "hey call me".. with his number.... she replys, "why, whts up is everything OK?" she didn't feel there was any reason to talk on the phone..
So he replyed "nothing wrong just miss your voice".. she wrote back "your not missing anything, really busy today have a good one"...
She was obviously brushing him off, well a couple days of trying to get her on the phone, he called her at work!! left her a message and she couldnt believe it, so instead of calling him back, she messaged him something like "why would you call my work, if you have something to talk about message me here" He writes back, "I would rather talk on the phone or in person, maybe lunch dinner or breakfast {with a smiley face winking" so now this guy is just a douche ... She writes back "my husband would explode if he read that last mesage and took it the same way I just did and I am sure your wife would not appreciate it either" He wrote back "what they don't know won't hurt them" and a link to the some song, I forget what it was...
She messaged one last time and said something like "it was good catching up with you but please don't take me un friending you the wrong way, I am just not interested in anything more than catching up, which we have done, and I think it will be a long time before I want to catch up again... Tell your wife I said hello..."
He never messaged back or maybe he couldn't, but he did call her at work again and left another message apologizing and asking for her to call him so he could explain himself...
She showed me the messages when she got home from work since she seen them there, she thought I would have been mad, but I was like he's a dreamer, can't blame him for that... But others haven't been so lucky, one of my customers lost his family because his wife met up with an old flame {from 20 years ago} they had 2 kids under 15, a house, a life together, she started talking innocent and then it gradually got wors,e then they met for lunch, then secret dinners then secret vacations, then divorce and a destroyed family... Would she have ever cheated with out facebook? I dont know, but she never did it before....
