I finally took the time to read this thread and one sentence in particular stands out to me, articulating a belief that is widely held but which we now have grounds to question:
you know what happens when you hear reverberated sounds? it destroys inteligibility of individual notes.
Yep, I would have agreed with you up until quite recently, as I think most people would. Then along came Toole.
Chapter 9 of Toole's book is entitled, "The Effects of Reflections on Sound Quality/Timbre" and chapter 10 is "Reflections and Speech Intelligibility". Let me do a bit of quoting:
"Repetition [is] the audible effect of the same sound being repeated many times at the ear of the listeners. Reflections create new sound events, changing the temporal pattern of the original sound. This could be construed as an error, but in Chapter 8 we found that people like reflections - music in rooms is preferable to music outdoors. Repetition has another aspect, a more subtle one, in that it gives the auditory system more time to examine a sound, more individual "looks", making some aspects fo complex sound more audible, and, as will be shown in the following chapter, early reflections make speech more intelligible."
"The most distinctive timbral cues in the sounds of many instruments have been found to be in the onset transients, not in the harmonic structure or vibrato of sustained portions.... This being so, it is reasonable that repetitions of these transient onsets give the auditory system more opportunities to "look" at them and to extract more information."
"In the audio community, it is popular to claim that reflected sounds within small listening rooms contribute to degraded dialog intelligibility. This concept has an instinctive rightness, and it has probably been good for the acoustical materials industry. However, as with several perceptual phenomena, when they are rigorously examined, the results are not quite as expected."
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nvestigations showed that natural reflections in small rooms are too low in amplitude and occur too soon to create problems of this kind ("disturbance" of speech)."
"In the field of architectural acoustics, it has long been recognized that early reflections improve speech intelligibility."
"In small listening rooms some individual reflections have a negligible effect on speech intelligibility, and others improve it, with the improvement increasing as the delay is reduced."
Toole doesn't address every question that can be raised on the subject (I have a few of my own), but he does indicate that reflections in home listening rooms are far more beneficial to both timbre and clarity than we are accustomed to thinking.
Yepimonfire, I do not mean to single you out for disagreement. What you have done is to home right in on a core issue, and one where the research that has recently been translated from Engineerese into English by Toole is particularly enlightening.