Mike, I think the fine-tuning may be dependent on the actual seating. How much natural recline there is, or however much "reclining angle" you like to use. My guess is "eye-balling" it and taking your best educated guess.
Man, if I was ever at your place, Im not sure if I would run to hug your kid first, or your subs first.
mike, you have just one row, yes?