Here's my take-away: If you use a washing machine in the forest and there is no one around to hear it, does it still make a sound?
If an amp makes a 35dB snake-hissing noise at 100W producing 100dB of music, can you still hear the 35dB snake-hissing noise in the background?
Well, like anything else, it doesn't matter because you can do whatever you want with your money.
If you want to spend thousands of dollars on amps to get -10dB sound, you can do that.
If you would rather spend that extra money on other things, you can do that.
We all have different priorities.