I hope no one minds my reviving an old thread. Here's some cool ideas from my own recent metering experiments and "research":
This has about 6 different meter options, several of which have the warm look the OP was looking for. Price various depending on the vendor (if you don't want to buy direct form china do a visual search). The cheapest vendor when I was looking they were only about $10 but that was a sale. The have a built in microphone so if all you want is bling it really couldn't be easier. There is also a header that will accept line level audio.
On the other hand, if blingy bling is what you are after,I highly recommend this next item. After extensive searching this is the *only* stereo auduo LED controller out there (all the rest sum L and R). The same controller is used for the 30, 60, and 90 (.5, 1, and 1.5 meter length respectively) versions. So you can rig up other options for LED strings if you want. I have connected three together for 5.1. I have also connected these to LED Christmas light strings that have LED's every 10cm for 9 meter long LED meters! Yes, I will have stereo Christmas trees this year!