So what I have gathered from all the help I have gotten with this post.
1. I need a couple of thousands $ for cables.
2. A magic box to break in my spanking new cables.
3. Better beer and pizza to find the sweet spot for the speakers.
But the final WORD is that I should just do nothing but chill out, roast a few bowls, and dig my new speakers
Yeah, I can live with DAT....
Thanking everyone for your help !!