I didn't say either one of those two things. Please reread what I posted and think about the question you asked.
Your reply to my post: "It's all about the atmosphere and expectations. They expect it to play loud in a club and expect to dance, and it is entirely out of the influence of their control. That expectation changes in someone's home, where they don't expect to need to shout to be heard, and they may have some influence by telling you're playing it too loud."
So, let me correct myself since I read too much into 3db's post.
People go to clubs and expect loud music, and they have no control over the volume.
At home, people have control and can turn the volume down.
My post "Music Perception" (the ability to see, hear, or become aware of something through the senses) the willingness or ability to discern musical content.
My Reply: So folks don't listen to music in the home only when roped into by expectations ?
All other times they just hear it in the background?
So, when and why do people "listen" to music or just hear it?