It helps that your main speakers are Salks.
Mine isn't necessarily the right way to do things these days but I found that the music I listen to, is not all that complicated. I can often count the members in the band on one hand, like that trio from Texas. I can hear each's contribution and the cumulative effects as well. I don't need to double duty my system for movies and I think that makes a difference. Like you, I too sit in the early spot, before any reflections and this is something that has not changed over the years. In other words, that spot has always been great, as long as there is enough power, and low enough distortion. I can make it work with subs, but at the cost of a rather substantial amount of real estate. The sub crawl too, puts my subs at some real inconvenient placement, one of which, could second as an ottoman.
The vintage electronics makes a difference too. Perhaps it's the lack of processing, or choices for that matter, but I was also running the AVR in bypass mode too. Still, right out of the old box, it was good without me touching anything and all of the controls set to the middle position. It made me feel kind of silly getting such good results with so little of my personal input. The first thought that came to mind being. . . . "These Japanese guys did all the work and didn't leave much undone." Sillier yet is, the old Hitachi direct drive turn table is as simple as it gets too and it does what it's supposed to without a super-overengineered tonearm and such.
I had been convinced that I needed the sub bass separation to relieve the mains, in which to gain more detail in the music, but it hasn't been lacking in that department. It's so good in fact, that at the end (or during) of my favorite reference material, that it will force an F-bomb from my core, from having my hat handed to me by the system and this happens a lot. Like after listening to Boston's debut album, Deep Purple's Machine Head, ZZ Top's Fandango etc. All of my favorites are back, without having condemned them to the blanketed, "crappy recording" fault that so many classics get tossed into these days when systems are over-revealing.
In a nutshell, I have just made my playback match what the studio had set up to prove the recordings with in the first place. Too easy.