Ha!
I talked to three different av companies today. I learned that:
1. My room sucks (already knew that, that's why I'm taking to the pros)
2. The built in is severely width limiting (same as above)
3. My current system is tuned very well (each guy mentioned this)
4. Paradigm and b&w are the primary candidates for Surrounds (dipoles most likely, but maybe in walls)
5. The idea of using dipoles shocks people until they are in the room that needs them
5. The existing in ceilings, though poor quality and installed in horribly misguided locations for their intended use, may function well as Atmos additions
6. One company won't do much without also selling a control4 remote with it (tbh I kinda need one anyway)
7. Anthem mrx720 is the current goto AVR
8. Everybody loves SVS subs!
9. Creative solutions are rare and hard to come by
I should have the quotes by Friday. I'm really looking forward to seeing what these guys put together.
Then I'll probably just steal all the best ideas, and hire my favorite to get it done.
I might have to pump the brakes and get a carpenter in here to properly address this built in for me. Can't push right because of the bathroom, but might be able to remove the whole thing, push left into the understair closet, and create something simple, wider, and more favorable to a front sound field.
Fun times.