@Pogre
I decided to move the sub behind the main seating to the TV to balance that out and as I expected it got rid of my localization issue. It wasn't a big problem, but it was just something that was on my mind. Ran Audyssey again and of course it picked up on the moved sub and adjusted the distance and dB.
I bumped both of them up about 3dB as you suggested...with the B&Ws I prefer crossing over at 60 I said I was going to try it 50, but I haven't done it yet.
Heck, I might just get a 3rd VTF3.5! I did like that positioning behind the seating...I'm mostly kidding, but I can see how people end up with 4 subs.