WRT the bakery in Oregon- they have been fined $135K- how did they decide on that amount and now that they have driven the bakery owners out of business, the State says they'll slap a lien on the couple's home if they don't pay. OK, they closed their shop in Sept, 2013- it's likely that they CAN'T pay and they have few options. They also have two young kids, their car has been vandalized, they have received threats and they have received a ton of bad press. The woman who went to the shop to place an order could have gone to a different bakery, eventually getting over the refusal. Who has been hurt more? I'm looking at the details, not making a statement about the brides who couldn't have a cake from this bakery and don't read anything into this.