I don't live in a theater
We have had a 7.1 system for several years. That said, the vast majority of blu rays/streaming HD is 5.1 or less. Yes, I can place Lord of the Rings in my blu ray player to demonstrate how fine my system sounds, but what does that constitute, maybe half a percent of our use? 7.1 was an audible improvement over stereo and 5.1, but I don't live in a theater, we use our family room for TV and music. What on earth would I do with speakers aimed every which way, I can hardly fit the ones I already have in the room. Heck, if you've been to the theater lately, unless it's IMAX, the sound I have at home is far better than at the movies, not all base and pumped up surround that sounds fake; also I don't have to put up with noisy crowds of people who talk during movies or have their cell phones beeping when they should be off.
That said, 7.1 with proper placement, good quality speakers and a large HD screen is all I need; 9.1/11.1 is another 3-D; ultra HD and in so far as I'm concerned, it's a non-starter.