Speakers that are as small as bose, but kick their butt by like 10x = Def Tech ProCinema 60's, even better are the 80's.
60's=700.00
80's=650 (without sub), another 250-350 for the sub
Denon 2805 or 1905.
Decent DVD player, and you're set (aside from cabling)
This'll give you much better build quality, expanability, value for your money compared to bose.
Bose is the highest priced item for what you get in the store (save high end plasmas & LCDs) they also have a very big markup, ever since magnolia hi-fi came into best buy, I think we'll see Bose decreasing over time.